Confidence and Affirmation
How many people have been depressed or lost self-confidence over some upsetting events? I certainly do! The old me, I would stay at home and play video games to forget everything. The new me, I provide what modern day people called, affirmation, to myself. During those depressing/emotional time, you have to look at yourself through the mirror and tell yourself (I usually don’t say it out loud) that “you can manage it”, once per day. Gradually, your confidence will be picked by your affirming behavior. I have learned a phrase from a former co-worker, “it takes a lot more to hurt my feeling.” I did not really understand how to achieve that until now. In business world, you can’t look defeated - life goes on with or without you feeling down and saggy, then why hurt yourself more by feeling negative? Be smart, be positive and be confident, be affirmative!